You sound so much better than when you first started on the boards. Your confidence in yourself has increased dramatically and I know that you'll have no problems finding some loving person attracted to your qualities. Your wife will eventually regret her mistakes but you might have moved on by then. It's no longer your worry. You worry about your daughter and make sure she gets the best out of life and then you take good care of yourself. Women are attracted to many (most) of the qualities you listed but there is one other thing that is really needed.....manliness! Be assertive without being overbearing. Show the way, be the protector of the nest.
If you think about how you were in the beginning vs. how you are today you'll see that you've grown and become more centred. You are more attractive and you will always be able to look back on this painful growing period with both joy and great sorrow but in the end perhaps that is what it took to take you to a new level.
I wish you the best of luck with what you're doing and hope you continue to stay in control of your life. Do or Not do, there is no try! (I've been seeing that alot on the boards lately. )
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