Pretty much all of my friends are/were people I know through H. Many of them I haven't seen at all since this ugliness started. I know he's been hanging out with some of them, so it would stand to reason that OW has been hanging out with them as well. The question is, if they've happily accepted her, then that doesn't show a hell of a lot of respect for me, so are these the kinds of people I really want to retain friendships with? I don't even know at this point.
The latest option for tonight is that seeing as how the semi-final is being played first, my brother will just txt me if they actually make the grand final, and then I can head on over to watch. I'll be at my parents' place already, and I'm pretty sure mum would be happy to go along...not so sure about dad, because he's liable to lose his block and tear H a new one if he sees him.
It'd probably be a good option to just go along if they actually end up making the grand final. That way H can't accuse me of just tagging along on the off chance that they make it, and go off about my having other motives for being there as well, like harrassing him.
On the other hand, if they don't make the grand final, then I don't get to put on my happy face and make my stand at all.
Decisions, decisions.
Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.