Hi Mark I think her calling your sister was a way of communicating with you. FLTC is right. Giver her space and if she wants you, she will call, good things come to those who wait. Detaching is tough, but it has to be done. If you think of it as the only way out, then you can do it. There are so many things I would love to say to W, but I know it would be a disaster. As much as this sucks, there is no other choice for us. We have to let go of what our WAW's think and do and we have to let go of the fear of them leaving for good. My plan is to detach as much as I can each day. One day I will get there. I have to be accepted for who I am. I'm going to post a link to a thread that has some very good info on detaching in the next post. Hang in there Mark. The days will get better one at a time. Take care, 4
