Latest development (he calls every day now) - he says he wants to continue "sailing" for another year or 2!! He has already been gone for 9 months!! This guy is on constant vacation. This is not what I had in mind when I said "I do". I am working every day and taking care of his dog, the cats, 2 properties and my apt while he is aimlessly floating on a boat.
But, the good news is we are talking now. I just don't want to schmuck it. We both wanted a family. I think after 2 miscarriages, he just gave up. But, the money that he has spent so far on this trip would have paid for multiple IVF treatments. His priorities are all out of whack.
But, I think we are piecing, since he has made several comments about reconciling. It's just that his time frame is a little slower than mine!!
Even his Mom says he is being selfish.
Deb
Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed. ~Kahlil Gibran
Me: 46 H: 45 Married: 5.0+ years Bomb: May 17, 2006 0 living children, 2 babies in heaven 1 dog, 2 cats
