I know this probably won't work out, but at this point, it's the last straw.
He will be staying in his apt, which is good and bad. Good b/c no way is it big enough for her! Bad b/c I'm not looking forward to seeing them around in the summer.
Nicola,
no matter what happens, it's YOU that has to be able to feel good about yourself. Right now, he's not the kind of 'man' you want to be with. Maybe he will never be that man.
However, you are the kind of woman that good men want.However you proceed, you'll do it knowing that you did everything that could be done. And along the way you heve helped others, like me, get our self esteem back and stand tall again.
What has he done?
You'll be all right. Now is the time for taking care of you, and looking at him for who he is: A sad, sick, lost person.
So feel sad, feel the loss. Then when you're done get up and sing "Hallelujah!" because you know the truth.
