Puffy making love to another women, and hanging out with her kids, when me and his kids are crying and we miss him so much.
Lissie,
I know exactly how you are feeling, it flat out sucks. I have felt the same thing but recently I realised one thing, and W pretty much confirmed it in a way tonight.
She had called to talk with the kids and when she was waiting for them she mentioned being exhausted. I asked her if the time change had gotten to her and she said " no, I just can't sleep at all, I am up all night, and my dreams interupt the rest." I said the tried and true " I'm sorry to hear that"
This little statement gave me one mother of a lightbulb moment.
I know she is in pain, I can see it all over her. I did think though that what was said here about them not really having the time of thier lives was BS. I thought she was living large and having nothing but fun.
You and I know what it's like not to sleep don't we lissie, we know exhaustion, we live it.
I know I am not having much fun at all with my GAL because I am tired, hell I could go to bed now and it's early.
My lightbulb tells me they ain't having much fun at all, tired, cranky, "Ow/OM I'm not in the mood, I am tired, have a headache etc." I think this is more of a reality than what we LBS think is happening.
Lissie, I want you to do somthing just for me OK
Repeat this for me often...........
Puffy does not ML with OW, they have sex.
You are and will be the only one Puffy has ML to.
You are a pillar of strength and the OW is definatly not. This makes you the attractive one and it takes time for puffy to see the attraction.
