Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

MC,

I asked him just Sunday (after he ended it with Ow) if he had just contacted our financial planner or was there more? He said he researched lawyers in the area and even picked a female one thinking that's what I would want. He laughed at the stupidity of it. 1) I doubt we could even share a lawyer and 2) I'd be stupid enough to use one he picked female or not!!!

My H says it was the whole pkg he missed. He knew how much I changed, how I gave him his freedom - helped move him to a sex pad to be with Ow but he really saw what the juggling of the kids did - they do not care for the apt and he now has to juggle the Ow and kids (they were NOT to find out). But a big piece for us was the outside world (our social circle) was not to understanding. Nobody was giving them any support as a couple - DUH!! I just kept being the loving supportive wife who said the door would be open. But also if he waited to long I may not be there when he did finally decide...