I haven't been able to post much to you because this really hits home with me. I was doing really well and H and I were getting along pretty well for a R with an alien and then WHAM!! I found out about OW, a so called friend of mine. I reacted much the same way you did.
It took me a lot longer to recoup than you but you are a very strong gal and have lots of support from both family and friends. You are a great person and an even better mother. I know that someday J is going to reappear where Puffy is now and you will be the victor.
Who is Pilar?? Is she someone on this BB?
Last edited by iluv2teach; 03/14/0701:18 AM.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.