Now Surviving Separation

[Heartbroken]

Thank you! I will read your sitch ASAP. I just got off the phone with him - he says he needs the passion and I get that but he needs to remember my emotional needs.

I really think he first need to truly see he's done with her and then we can really begin to fix us. I am cool on the phone - but just want to hug and touch him when I am with him. It's so hard but if we can get through the next 4-6 wks then we can really start to reconnect. We are slowly starting to connect now - but being in DB mode I am really trying to slow it down. He's going to feed the kids at the apt Wed. and then we are doing family dinner here Thursday. I asked him to do family movie nite Friday, But Sat. I am out with friends - already have the St. Pats shirt! Now I would much rather be with him but I also have to continue my life...

Who would have thought the last 9 mos have flown by but then seemed to have not moved at all - I guess the world has kept moving and I have been stuck in this limbo... I cannot wait for Spring. It was over 70 here today - the neighbor and I walked tonight for 40 mins. It was a good nite even with him at the apt...