Heartbroken, I finally got a chance to read your whole thread. I am glad that your h is jumping off the fence. Your h is in some ways similar to my h (people pleaser, can't let go of OW) so I will be following your thread. For now, I just want to congratulate you.
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?