Oh Nicola I am so sorry!!! {{{HUGS}}} I wish I knew what to say. You know how to reach me if you want to talk. I am glad you have someone in the church you could talk to. I hope that helps give you some peace. You have stood for your marriage and you have done what you can. Please don't beat yourself up. And if you still want to stand that is up to you. Just because he is dating someone still doesn't mean it is over for you. It all depends on you sweetie!!!
Much love! Christy
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955