Annie, he is 5'8"...maybe he has a Napoleon complex?

Look all I know is who he is right now is someone I do not recognize at all. I look at him but I see the alter ego...his demonic side. He refuses to let me see his vulnerabilities to really allow me in. I think his self-inflated ego stems from what he was told as a child by his mother and because basically he feels like sh*t about himself. He needs validation by others to make him feel that he is worthy. Of course, he says he has not self-esteem issues...so why is he mentioning it? I do not think it would occur to someone who thought they were "the best" unless the really DID suffer from lower self-esteem.

His problem is that he cannot control me really. I will eventually free myself from him or anyone who attempts to do that. The really sad thing is that he was never like this before. We had such a good time, but that person is gone.

Anyhow, I refuse to stay quashed and controlled. He will figure it out sooner or later.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller