Unfortunately, I am not in the same wonderful boat as Heartbroken - yet. Feel free to read up on my situation... Too long to post here on Heartbroken's thread! Ha!
But, no, H does not know what the heck he wants... One minute he says we're going to be okay, the next he says he doesn't want to be married to me, the next he says there is hope. He only recently said that he didn't want to be married to me, and it was the FIRST time had had said that, but it was after days of me chasing and pressuring him, so I've been told not to take that to heart... So, hang in there. Your W is confused, whether she wants to admit it or not. Otherwise, why wouldn't she move out sooner and file for D? There is still hope. Keep Dbing. When/if she gets out on her own without you, that might be just what is needed. My H has been basically gone (hasn't actually MOVED OUT, just has packed a bag of clothes and toiletries - like he's on vacation or something...) since November and hasn't woken up yet, and I have faith that he will, just as Heartbroken's H is doing now. So hang in there.... and be patient. That is the hardest thing. Heartbroken hung in there for 8 whole months, and then it only took two weeks away for her H to come to his senses...
