I think we've scared her away, what do you guys think?!?!

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I think we have to NOT get caught up in trying to understand the OW! It sidetracks us and gets us all worked up and for what? How is it helpful? . . . Now, I think it more important to get back to thinking how we can improve the attraction of our M's for our partners.


I think the OP's input can be quite useful in figuring out what it is that our spouses are attracted to considering they are being drawn towards them!

“No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. ”
– Albert Einstein