UpNdOwn..thanks for your input. I have asked her if anything I am doing is making her feel pressure..she said no. Now I have sent her flowers last Friday, telling her I great of a Mom she is and how I appreciate all she does. She loved them. I also told her I has a present for her this past Monday, she told she loves presents. It was a book that I know she wanted. I know she loves massages and could not afford to buy one when shes there. I did kick it around before I decided to do it, so it is done now we will see how it goes.
