I did not go through all this hell for the last 9 mos to settle. We will be better and stronger or I will not stay. Ultimately that is the goal - I was fine before I got married and I will be fine on my own if that's how it plays out. I choose to make us all happy, me, the H and our kids. Divorced people are usually not any happier 5 yrs. later. Couples who stuck with it and really work at it ARE usually happier!!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
