I TOTALLY agree with everything you said. Wow, it's ironic, but my H and I only worked on our R for two weeks before he left again...
At any rate, I see tremendous hope and progress in your situation and am so glad to hear that he is finally on your side of the fence, the RIGHT side of the fence. I wasn't trying to dash your hopes, but rather to just tell you the mistakes I made when we tried to reconcile in hopes you could learn from them. I don't want you to go through what I did, or it sounds like also what you've already been through once...
So, I applaud you for all of your hard work and all that you've accomplished and am so glad that you are now working on things together and that H's attitude/honesty is improving. That is wonderful news. Keep up the good work - just don't get over excited like I did and go too fast, okay? Yes, you're right, BABY STEPS!!! Congratulations again - I think you need to change your screen name?!?!?!
