You do not know why he wanted the money, and guessing why only puts monsters in your head.

You are doing well, I would recommend going dark and not talking to him about anything but the children.

Your GALing might be upsetting him, but wo cares? This is for you not him, not right now, not ever.

Work on you, let him go through this, let him get over these things, stop talking to him if all he is doing is spilling venom.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet