yeah...everytime I have to actually talk to my H....I get defensive...a protection mechanism...but probably destructive at best. So I guess i would have to agree. But he is not in a place where I want to really talk to him. Sometimes circumstances dictate it and it goes badly. Or he spews Yhe victim song....
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
