she is sooooo calculating I guess thats why I really dont see a n end in sight with my stitch......she must practice in the mirror what to say.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
they are together 24/7 live together,go everywhere together, ride to work together, same shift.....do you think she has a control problem????? My H txts me sometimes...I swear he must be hiding in the bathroom!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
I think he will eventually get bored with this. But isn't it exactly like adolescent first love - teenagers joined at the hip. Let's face it - not normal for a grown up to behave like this!
the affair has been going on a year.....the real joined at the hip thing started happening last fall and now is demented like. i figure another year before he starts to wake up
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Annie, he is 5'8"...maybe he has a Napoleon complex?
Look all I know is who he is right now is someone I do not recognize at all. I look at him but I see the alter ego...his demonic side. He refuses to let me see his vulnerabilities to really allow me in. I think his self-inflated ego stems from what he was told as a child by his mother and because basically he feels like sh*t about himself. He needs validation by others to make him feel that he is worthy. Of course, he says he has not self-esteem issues...so why is he mentioning it? I do not think it would occur to someone who thought they were "the best" unless the really DID suffer from lower self-esteem.
His problem is that he cannot control me really. I will eventually free myself from him or anyone who attempts to do that. The really sad thing is that he was never like this before. We had such a good time, but that person is gone.
Anyhow, I refuse to stay quashed and controlled. He will figure it out sooner or later.
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
