Its funny how speking a few females to get the opinion on how my exW is thinking makes you feel better. They all agree she needs to be cautious because the truly does not know what she wants and does not want to hurt me again. But they all agree keep casual and don't let her feel any pressure and you will be fine.
ddc, I will have to agree totally with what others have told you. You need to move very S-L-O-W-L-Y. She needs to know (within herself) that the changes you have made are permanent. .. And then once she "decides" than, it (almost) needs to be her idea to move forward, in order for her not to feel pressured.
On your LV gift .. I am questioning that. It IS a wonderful idea .. but are you sure that she is not going to feel "pressured" by this? It does sound like you two are still pretty new in working on your R. This might be a bit overboard at this time .. ?
Just thought I might give you my opinion .. for whatever it's worth. Thanks for your input on this mornings threads!
