P.S. I just have to add this...it's anecdotal, but I've heard it from others as well.
My wife's first husband cheated on her. She gave him a chance, similar to big number, but he screwed up again. She kicked him to the curb...and in her case didn't look back. I'd have to ask her whether she ever regretted it. Anyway, it has been at least 8 years and he still wants her back. While my wife and I were separated, etc, he suddenly became Mr. supportive and interested in your life again. It's what we can't have that drives us guys crazy.....or especially, what we should be able to have, because we used to, but now can't have, that drives us crazy.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
