That's fine. Most on here would undoubtedly say that also. It's pretty standard DB fare. There seem to be two types of success story...the patiently supportive kind, and those that finally quit being diplomatic and say, "enough of this, I don't need you. I'm doing my own thing". One just seems a little less doormat like and leads to a reconciliation with more control....rather than walking on eggshells with the "little woman" making sure to please her man this time around.
Ever hear the stories of the guys that beg and plead and come crawling? They are the ones that are kicked to the curb by their wife/gf/whatever. The ones that "stand by their man" through infidelity are the ones that take about forever to get their H back....and usually are most successful once their cheating H finally lost OW or got tired of her. I guess I just struggle with the concept of accepting my spouse cheating on me while I looked the other way. Call me old fashioned.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
