so debra, what is going good??? are there any possitives you can focus on for now and see what happens from there.

what reasons other than weight did h give for having affairs (and btw that's a sad ass exuse)

sorry things are not going as you hoped they would...

sounds like you were doing a good job on your own...what were you doing then that was keeping you going and happy are you still doing those things??

LL