i call this ow a predator vali.....she calculating went after my H while still married herself...claiming abuse....she set up a confrontation so my H could "rescue" her and because he was vulnerable....she tipped him good. that was a year ago...while I was away.....good timing huh? She then told her H she was divorcing him for mine and got it in 2 months...FAST huh? My H while lacking in self-esteem to cover it up has been a good walk the walk -talk the talk about how he has....well we didnt really...but he made it sound good. She wanted a meal-ticket.


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest