i call this ow a predator vali.....she calculating went after my H while still married herself...claiming abuse....she set up a confrontation so my H could "rescue" her and because he was vulnerable....she tipped him good. that was a year ago...while I was away.....good timing huh? She then told her H she was divorcing him for mine and got it in 2 months...FAST huh? My H while lacking in self-esteem to cover it up has been a good walk the walk -talk the talk about how he has....well we didnt really...but he made it sound good. She wanted a meal-ticket.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest