LL is 40...the OW was 30...and she was a gold digger too...and a whore. She thought she could catch him...but if he goes with someone else she will be much younger...probably 25 or so, becuase they are so impressionable and can be in awe of him. Probably that is what your H likes about the OW--the attention, the idea that he is great in all things. We know all their faults and weaknesses and that makes us less attractive.

Honey, all the OW are icky. Nice people don't do stuff like that.

Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller