I just caught up to you. I was curious what happened. Can't say I'm surprised your H is still seeing OW. I'm sure it's worse that he's saying.
I haven't caught up on anything but your initial, very desperate sounding post. I don't have the energy to retype everything I wrote the first time (my post just disappeared), but here's a rundown of your next 6 months. You play the supportive, loving wife while he continues to feed you lines about have just enough of a "back together again" feel to string you desperately along. He continues to see OW and you turn a blind eye. Two endings: thing with OW ends and he returns to you without remorse and you welcome him back, sacrificing your own principles by swallowing your anger and bitterness until you can't take it any more; or alternatively, he ends up with OW.
Bad future? Yes, because you need to take control of what you can control...yourself. You don't have to stand for this. Being the supportive "little woman" to a cheater is not attractive. It doesn't endear you to him...just makes him feel good that you are so desperate.
Kick him out Get your own life going Go dark on him Have fun Let him wonder why you are so happy without him Make yourself a challenge Think about whether you want a lying, cheater anyway
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
