Thanks! I really have learned a ton with DBing and it did make me a stronger better person and mom. Now hopefully it will help make me a better wife! Every one's sitch is so unique yet we all tend to use the same tools maybe in a diff manner I did not live be the DB rules and broke them for way too long. I tended to follow my heart at times too (hard not to right!). My C said I have amazing perseverance and that I was going about things correctly. But a huge part of my sitch is my H - I just knew that this was not the character of him and if given the space and time he would come to see things for the way they really were. The fantasy bubble burst very quickly and not that I am happy about it - I just did not expect it this quickly....
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing