Hey Vali....concern is good.....my H only does it to appease his guilt...it is not authentic.....and sporadic....still deep in the tunnel.....oh yeah my H started up AGain on the woe is me and blaming everyone else (ME) so we KNOW he is nowhere near done.....or ready to even peak. That is why NC works for me....too much contact with him gives me a migraine. I leave him and OW hanging in the putrid breeze of the tunnel.....me? I am leaving all options open.....i cant say I am standing...I cant say I am not standing....i still have a long ways to go though.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest