Making the leap - Hopefully wount Jinx it!

[limbo]

It is so true what you say, its nice to see it put into words like you have!
I wish my H was as supportive, he is a good man, and that why i hung in, but he is in some ways a selfish man, well thats obvious or he wouldn't have had the A, but what I mean is that he can't really see the pain and anguish, and doesn't really want to talk about the whole situation, and this worries me, and why I think its important that we get some marriage counselling, because I don't think that its healthy to pretend that nothing has happened.
But I just don't know how to bring it up