Should I or shouldn't I?

[missmyfriend]

I am starting to second guess whether I should make this purchase. My job has been very understanding about what I am going through but with the reorganization(s) and the job discontinuances along with a larger debt load, I have concerns about spending $2500. Of course, my W has always been critical of my frugal ways. I question whenever I spend money on most things.

Can I afford the bike? Probably. Even my mom is encouraging me to do something for myself. But I guess I have problems with that because it seems so self centered. Isn't that the problem with our spouses in the first place?