Sol, Always, Ali, & UA,
Thanks for stopping by my curb!

I haven't posted on my own thread for a while. Things between H and I are really great! We are closer than we have been in a long, long, long time! We now both make our R our #1 priority. We ML at least twice a week , which is way better than the 2-3 times a year before the A. H is very attentive towards me; does things around the house, kisses, hugs, holds my hand, takes walks with me every afternoon, talks to me, goes out on "dates" with me....I could go on and on.

H has yet to tell me what exactly happened during his mini-MLC, but I am confident that he will some day. Things really turned around for me when I truly dropped the rope; which by the way I had like a noose around his neck. See the quote above from 1210, I too had my H on a pedestal, my whole life was him. Once I decided to get my own life things started to slowly change. Once I got it thru my head that I had no right to "control" my H, but to just let him be, things started to slowly change. In my mind I did a role reversal I saw that H never once tried to control me, why did I feel it necessary to control him? That is a topic for another post.

Anyway, I owe a great deal of gratitude to this website and all of the wonderful people here that have encouraged me to fight for my M. I won't name names since I don't want to forget anyone, but you all know who you are and I wish you nothing but the best that life has to offer! \:\)