No he didn't find out about the date. I wish I would not have vented that here I knew it would always come back to haunt me!
Why do you think he doesn't have OW? I have tons of proof!
This is how he has always reacted just not to this extent when money was involved.
The betrayal he was talking about was with my job thing 4 years ago. And he had apologized and supported me and helped get me business and when my partner took off w/ the money H told me not to worry about it and we would be ok!
I think he is just grasping and I am the only one to take it out on, I don't know.