A few days ago the exW told she liked the way my clothes smell, I told her you need to use the Downey ball in the wash. Well she went over the weekend and bought one so she sent me a text yesterday AM saying she used on Sunday and all her clothes smell so good. I sent a text back saying "I can't wait to smell you" She replied with "SWEET!" She been very receptive to flirting lately, mostly initiated by me but she doesn't seem to mind so I will continue. She is leaving for Las Vegas tommorrow with some friends for 5 days so she sent another text saying "how about u come over 2moro nite (tues). I can give u all of D stuff 2. I have a lot 2 do today and 2 tonite" Can't read too much into whether she wants to spend time with me or just go over my D school sch while she is gone. I will act As If she wants to see me.
I decided I was going to surprise her with a massage at the hotel spa in LV. I am going to give her a "Thinking of you" card in a sealed envelope which will say "Do Not Open until you are in the hotel" Inside the card I put a note saying "Anyone can catch your eye, but it takes someone special to catch your heart. You're my someone special" Go to the Spa in the hotel to see what something special is waiting for you. Enjoy!"
I spoke to a few of my female friends who all agreed this was a good move and wouldn't be construed as pressure.
Will see what her response is on Weds.
Its funny how speking a few females to get the opinion on how my exW is thinking makes you feel better. They all agree she needs to be cautious because the truly does not know what she wants and does not want to hurt me again. But they all agree keep casual and don't let her feel any pressure and you will be fine.
