I think my H is also one of those that has the capacity to be nice, he always seems concerned about me, even through this whole MLC thing, it's like he wants me and the rest of the world to see him do right by me...he keeps forgetting though that having an affair with a 24 year old office......is not being very NICE !
I miss him in this No contact, but feel that he really needs to MISS me, to see what life is like WITHOUT me in it....only then will he be making an INFORMED choice, because if he stays with her, then that is what it will be like, I will NOT be in his life ! It's harsh but true, I will not be "replaced" by a 24 year old....!!!! Sorry, but I've grown strong enough this past year to know that I am worth more than that !!!
So -- sorry bit of a hijack here -- I guess I was just trying to say that my H is desperately trying to be nice and do the right thing whilst going through his MLC, I hope that doesn't mean that it will therefore take much longer to come out of as he hasn't been able to SPEW !!
Bye for now take care, lots of love
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
