Several months ago I had an affair on my wife. I just admitted to it about 5 weeks ago. We are working on it the best we can. I know what I did and am very remorseful. My wife was a good wife. We had our problems. I did not talk to her and let her know how I felt. I look back now and see all my mistakes and am working on correcting them one by one. This has left my wife feeling like she can never have the marriage she always wanted. I know I have taken alot from her, but I believe we can make it thru this. She on the other hand has many doubts and is afraid of trying again. I understand all that. Our marriage in the last 5 weeks has had its good and bad days. My goal is to show her every day how i feel for her, but the memories of my affair haunt her constantly. I know it is early, but she thinks she will never recover from this. I assure her she can and we can have a great marriage. She tells me now I'm the husband she has wanted but now it may be too late. I don't accept that. I won't let her accept that. We have spoken about divorce but at the same time said we were going to get thru this. We love one another very much. How can I as her husband help get her back to me. I love her.
