My ex MIL has been a horrible person to me since this all happened to me..As much as I tried to explain to the family what was going on they have refused to see my side at all.
Today my mom told me that s30 got a call from MIL about him not going to her house at the beach. My son is very busy, just starting his own business, has a 18 month old perfect baby boy and his wife is expecting again in June...plus making sure that all of their friends are together from H.S. because they have all done the same thing since high school and they do alot together...Plus they both put in long hours at their jobs right now I am unable to see GS much becaue of my work but ,I understand that they are busy people. At New Years weekend my MIL made my S22 feel guilty and upset that he wasn't coming to the beach to see her... My kids never went before to see the her why is she trying to make them feel guilty now?
Anyway I blew a gasket today. I went beserk. NOBODY EVER MESSES WITH MY CHILDREN AND PEOPLE KNOW THAT.... I don't care if I'm 92 with one tooth I will still put my say in the affair if your messing with my children. I have never had to defend them or take up for them they do a good job themselves.
Well I called the hateful bitch today and told her to stop harasssing my children to come up there and see her. They are busy and don't really want anything to do with her. That I'm sick and tired of her making them feel guilty because they don't want to come up there. She was MAD. I didn't care and hung up on her. She picked up her phone mad. I was cool calm and collected did not use profanity or say she was anything derogitory..Didn't even yell.
Well she called while I was out, and cussed me out and said that she would still call the children. It's okay if she calls them but when she harasses them I get mad. She called me a Number 1 bitch ..she was yelling.
Then her daughter called and said some really hateful things. They both said I was robbing my ex h. How do they even know what the ex has done. He has done some horrriblethings to me....not fulfilling the seperation agreement. lying about the money that I was suppose to receive etc. Then her daughter called my son. My son does not like to get involved with stuff like this. His Aunt questioned him and then told him what she said to me... She was rather rude too.. Cussing me out and stuff.
My MIL told MY daughter and my mom that my ex and I didn't have sex for 6-7 years. When I heard her tell me this on the phone I told her it was a lie. That that was not the truth. Well, she went ahead and called my daughter and told her after I said that it was a lie. I am wondering if I should sue her for defammation of character and slander? I have a case. The lie really has bothered me. I know that it came from X but I told MIL that it was a lie and not to be saying that. She has gone on and done it anyway. I have been very nice to them thru this whole mess and they are the ones that are hateful and vindictive. Yes I Know turn the other check...I'm better off with out them, that they are just that type of people,,etc. But that LIE hurt me right up with what X has done to me. I guess that I'm just venting. They said some horrible things to me today after I asked rather nicely for MIL to stop making my children feel guilty...
Any input from anyone would be nice...I've held my mouth closed for 3 years while they have bad mouthed me all over the place... ITSY
M54 H54 married 30 years Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004 Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07? Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05 Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues OW 5/2005 not a prostitue Divorced 9/2006
