Journey of a Happy Heart 2

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Nicola,

I figured out why I was so upset about all this, and it's because he didn't even offer to help me out this morning with getting the kids to school and getting to work. I mean, a friend would do that if they smashed up my car, wouldn't they?

What is it with the MLCer with not wanting to be nice to the LBS and at least treat us like they would their friend. I think that they are afraid to be nice to us as those loving feelings may just rise to the surface again and they might just get sucked back into the R. As much as XH and I used to get angry with each other, we never ignored each other's phone calls or totally stopped doing kind things for each other. No point in trying to figure them out. As much as we try to detach and not let the things they do bother us, it still does. If ever your H comes out of this, maybe he can answer the question and help the rest of us out.

On a positive note, he didn't tell you to take the car in for repairs!

Happy grading!