P.S. Oldtimer--I think your suggestion that H might want me there for moral support is quite possible. He flat-out told me several weeks ago that he didn't want to go on the work trip. Though I don't think he'll really ask me to come.
I'm just planning on being easy, loving, welcoming...no stress for him from a harpy at home. And I'm praying he has the strength/desire to stay away from temptation.
