Thanks for the feedback Mama and Oldtimer.

The conversation about the babysitting...was a pretty lighthearted exchange, my reply was made in a pleasant tone of voice. I can see that I could have turned it into a more positive/flirtatious banter, and I'll work on that. I'm currently reading Mars/Venus and need to sit down and make a game plan for learning to speak his language better.

(I'm not sure where I am in piecing yet either \:\) H seems to be half-heartedly in the R, so not really committed at this point. I think he likes the role of boyfriend better than husband right now.)

Positive: H left bright and early this morning. He has called four times just to check in and chat. It's been nice.


Me-36
H-36
3 young children
Married-14y