With regard to custody, who knows? If she stays in this town, I could see her willingly sharing custody. Her family connections are a couple states away, and I suppose it's possible that she would want to move there.
Currently, the division of time spent with DD5 is generally, M-F, W spends about an hour and a half in the morning, getting her ready for school and driving her there. I pick her up from school at about 4pm, and we are usually together until W comes home around 7pm. DD5's bedtime is 8. You do the math. The weekends are W's time to spend with DD5, but often, I'm part of the activities.
