It would be nice if he were reading here. Have you considered asking him to read and post here?
If or when you are ready for more (or need it), I still have the rest of the plan. I hope you won't need it.
I am very glad that you have taken the biggest step, commitment toward your relationship. Bravo.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.