And you know, Cobra, the letter is not necessarily about sex. It's about choices, willingness, and what a spouse might do to show the other partner that they are committed to the relationship.
I agree. This is about BEHAVIORAL change, a commitment to DOING something different. Mrs. Hd's internal life, her reasons, her excuses... these are HER business, not hairdog's. He cannot control or change them. All he can do is ask for visible change, not internal change.
