Also about my first letter proposal, I’m trying to think of a way to keep the fur from flying too soon. Yes, I do think HD needs to be ready to get tough. That does not mean he should do so unless he has to. Having that resolve will help him have more confidence. If MrsHD is willing to communicate on a civil level, give that a chance. If not, then he can get tough. I say keep that hand under the table for now.
This woman needs validation and acknowledgment desperately. There’s got to be some way to add that into the letter.
