HELP!!!! INFIDELITY AGAIN!!!!

[Heartbroken]

I am telling you now - you NEED TO LET HIM GO!!! Please go read my sitch (Now surviving separation) I did what you are doing - even with having read DB twice!!! I just pushed him out the door - it was not until I truly let him go that he even liked looking at me. We have made more progress in the last three weeks than the last 8 mos. Please Please Please get a grip - you will push him away for good if you don't. I almost did and it took me so long to finally get it!!! Let him go!!! He needs to see what the real life will be with OW before he can come back to the new you.... try, I know your pain - I had wished for cancer rather than losing him how pathetic was that???? I am so much stronger now and I will be fine with or without him. Please see my postings!!