If she kind of asked, then return the favor, but do not ask her thoughts or permission. If she raises a fuss, you can always say, Look we are going seperate ways, this is something I alway wanted. I appreciate your worries about my safety, but I'm a big kid ok?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK