I have a question that I was hoping you good people could help me with? I have an opportunity to finally buy a motorcycle. Should I?
And, no, I do not believe I am going through a mid life crisis, at least, I hope not. I have talked to the DB coach and he has encouraged me to GAL, some sort of hobby. There are a lot of things I would like to do but this is one I wanted to pursue for a long time. My W never wanted my to get a bike for a long time because I was the breadwinner and she was afraid I would get hurt or killed.
I found a bike, not too old, that is not very much money, that I could buy. It is something quite different than what I have done in the past. It would be good for me to just ride somewhere, to get away.
My W is getting an apartment at the beginning of April but the timing is more coincidental. Each year I have been thinking about a bike around this time. My W has been thinking about getting an apartment for several months. Should I wait?
She has not talked about D again and she has given no indication what she wants, materially, if anything from a D. She wants to be independent so I may have to tell her L I want her to take some stuff. Then again, she could always change her mind and what everything.