Originally Posted By: Valentine


I went to therapy session on Saturday and asked my therapist why I feel so indifferent to him sometimes? Am I falling out of love with him? She said no, it's just that he is orbiting around me and with each orbit he moves in closer and closer to me. Except that he really isn't giving me what I need...he dances around the real issues and that leaves me feeling unfulfilled. You know what? She is right. He never wants to come out and say it, in 3 sentences or less. He wants to soliloquize it to death. And I just want closure and I want to talk about the real issues, but he cannot seem to do it. Wonder if he ever will....


oh gosh, this is exactly how I feel after interacting with my H yesterday. However, this place we are in is much more calm, wouldn't you agree?

Last edited by Rosy_Times; 03/12/07 07:32 PM.

Me 31
WAH 30
M 5
Together 14 years
S 4
divorced 7/11/07