About Tuesday night...you are doing that for you...no need to mention it to H..
As for parents...LEAVE IT ALONE...he has it in his day planner...he is a big boy...it is HIS BUSINESS...
I am just shaking my head that you can't see that even "accepting" an invitation to go see parents is a HUGE MISTAKE...I can only hope that you will make the right decision...I can't make them for you...you are an adult...but I can see the danger signs all over on that one...it is too soon...and look at what happened the last time...and to "make believe" that you two are a couple at his parents is going to be emotionally straining on both of you....Tam...really really....please DON'T GO...no matter what....I don't want to see you lose what you have earned....or worse, to lose him for good...
You asked...if he wants to be with her why doesn't he leave you for good if he wants to be with her???...because HE HASN'T DECIDED WHAT HE WANTS....this means you still have hope...you still have a chance...of course if you go to the parents (if he even asks you to still go)that could all change...for the worse...I have thought about it a lot and I can't see any good coming from that....but I see a lot of advancement and being able to show him how strong you can be if you decline to go...if you just let it go and stay home to work....
BTW...I don't always get to fall asleep in my H's arms...I asked him for some quality time last night...he replied "What does that mean?"....well he didn't get to bed until 1 am....I go to work at 5 am...so there was no time with him...it isn't rosey all the time....but it is getting better...and I will accept that...
