W decided to visit "friend" over the weekend. After flying there, she thought better of it, rented a car, and drove home. (A very long drive).
As of this minute, things are kaputt between them.
Got some crappy questions for you:
She told you this? Or is this supposition?
They lie. What are the chances that she wasn't the one who ended this?
You cannot afford to be optimistic, this will crush you. Continue on as you have been.
If he is the one who ended this after she flew up there, then, this isn't over.
Do not advise her on what to do. Listen to her plans, and ASK questions about them but offer no advice or suggestions. Validate.
If this is truely what is going on with her, then be her friend, and exert no pressure upon her. Be comfortable in your skin and show her that you are comfortable being around her without needing her, and after a time of doing this, if she is still coming around then you might be able to be cautiously optimistic.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
